Here, World,
Take My Children
William
[Bill] W. Hall, D.D.
This
is the contemptible proposal Lot made in Gen. 19:8 to a perverted mob in
Sodom when he offers to prostitute and sacrifice his daughters to them
in order to secure social custom, pragmatic peace, and personal gain.
"I have two daughters which have not known a man; let me, I pray
you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes;
only unto these men do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow
of my roof." How could any parent, especially Christian, (II Peter
2:6-8) ever make such a proposition? Let us see how Lot came to his
tragic hour, and how he developed such a mean and selfish character
causing such a wicked proposal.
The
destruction of Sodom and the surrounding cities is a picture of coming
final judgment. We may expect conditions then to repeat themselves now
in increasing measure until the final judgments begin to fall. Those
conditions include Christian parents with hearts and attitudes like Lot.
History
According
to Gen. 11, Lot went with his grandfather Terah and uncle Abraham from
Ur after his father Haran dies. En route to the land of Canaan, they
dwelt in a place called Haran where Terah died. From there the Lord
called Abraham on to Canaan, promised the land to him, and promised to
make of him a nation and a blessing to all nations. Lot went along as
one of the family. Perhaps he was already married and had some children
by the time they reached Canaan. In Gen. 12:10, Abraham went into Egypt
because of a famine, and Gen. 13:1 says when Abraham left Egypt, Lot was
with him. Following the sojourn in Egypt, Abraham was very rich (13:2).
Lot had accumulated some possessions also (13:5). While the riches did
not turn Abraham's heart from the Lord, Lot acquired a taste for money
and the fleshpots of Egypt.
As
a result of increased possessions there was strife between their
herdsmen (13:7,8). Rather than having strife, Abraham suggested they
separate and generously offered the first choice of territory to Lot
(13:9). Lot could have asked to settle the strife and stay with Abraham,
or he could have asked counsel from his godly uncle. At least, he should
have gone to Abraham's altar (13:4) and called on the Lord, asking for
divine direction. But Egypt (type of the world) was already established
in his greedy heart, and he saw the well watered, money making acreage
of the lower Jordan valley with cities, including Sodom, where he could
sell his products (13:10). God, who sees not as men, saw a place filled
with men who were sinful and wicked (13:13).
Sodom
suited Lot even if it did not suit God and, "he pitched his tent
toward Sodom" (13:!2). Satan always decorates the road to ruin and
makes it attractive, so Lot unwisely moved his family toward Sodom and
finally into Sodom (14:12). Lot's children were at that crucial age when
they needed spiritual guidance and examples. Had Lot made the right
choice, his wife and children could have been led in paths of
righteousness with godly standards and goals. Instead, Sodom filled
their hearts.
In
Gen. 14, Lot did have a special warning from God and an opportunity to
leave Sodom. When enemy kings captured and took Sodom captive, Abraham,
with 318 of his loyal servants, rescued them. Instead of leaving the
city, Lot moved back and even used the incident to further establish
himself in the city. Gen. 19:9 indicates Sodom tolerated Lot as a judge
and reprover, perhaps because his uncle had delivered Sodom.
Lot
had a very "democratic" home. The children "did their own
thing" while Dad was busy making money and securing his position.
Mrs. Lot even encouraged the children to follow every fad and style.
They made friends with the wicked and accepted their morals, and it is
amazing that two of the daughters were still virgins! The godly precepts
of Uncle Abraham were almost forgotten, and their teachers were
sex-crazed liberals. Two of the daughters had married wicked men, and
the sons mentioned in 19:!2 were also lost.
Notwithstanding
the presence of the compromiser, Lot, Sodom became more wicked and
depraved until the Lord tells Abraham in Gen. 18:20 that its sin cried
out for judgment. In answer to Abraham's prayer, the Lord agreed that He
would spare Sodom if He could find only ten righteous people in the
city. Since Lot had not won his family, there were not even five
righteous in the city--perhaps only backslidden, carnal Lot was saved
(II Peter 2:6-8).
In
Gen. 19, the two angels the Lord sent to inspect Sodom and warn Lot,
arrived and met Lot at the city gate, where legal matters and business
were transacted. Lot, knowing their danger of molestation and death,
insisted that the angels, who appeared as men, go to his home. Deep in
Lot's nature was the customary habit of hospitality, and to this
tradition he would sacrifice everything, even his own children.
After
the meal, a mob of perverts from every part of the city surrounded Lot's
house demanding the strangers. The fires of unnatural lusts burned
unrestrained in both young and aged, indicating the proportions of this
society's wickedness. They forgot hospitality and decency in their
display of depravity. This was the moral filth in which Lot had chosen
to rear his family.
Lot
stepped outside to face the mob, called the wicked "brethren"
and pled the laws of hospitality and the protection of his house. When
this failed, he offered his two virgin daughters as substitutes for his
guests! Lot sacrificed holy standards on the altar of established
tradition. He had no right to do wrong, even to protect a guest. He
could not have known the mob would refuse his offer and insist on their
perversion with his guests. The mob threatened Lot, then rushed him with
the evident purpose of raping Lot, then the two guests.
The
angels rescued Lot, smote the mob with a type of blindness, then
announced God's judgment on Sodom. Lot was given an opportunity to go
and warn his married daughters and their husbands, but he had been such
a poor testimony, they thought he was joking. After this failure, the
angels urged Lot to take his wife and virgin daughters and flee the
city, and when they were reluctant to leave, the angels forcefully
evicted them--"the Lord being merciful" in answer to Abraham's
prayer. Lot had so cursed his wife with his materialism that in
disobedience to God she looked back to what she loved and was turned to
a pillar of salt.
Sodom
and Gomorrah were destroyed because of their wickedness. Only Lot and
his daughters were delivered. His girls were our of Sodom, but Sodom was
not out of them. They got their father drunk on successive nights and
both conceived by him. Lot fathered both the Moabites and the Ammonites,
the ancient enemies of Israel, by his own daughters.
Application
Almost
anyone would condemn Lot for offering his daughters to that perverted
mob, no matter the custom that provoked it. But parents, including
Christians, are doing the same thing today saying, "Here, world,
take my children." Customs, social, business, and peer pressure are
more important than purity to the modern parent (Titus 1:15).
Parents
allow their children to listen to any kind of godless music and view
every kind of filth on the televisions screen. Every kind of immodest
and inappropriate dress is allowed because it is stylish. Parents do not
want to be too strict or called fanatics by either their children or
their friends so there are few restraints concerning dates, friends,
habits, entertainment, etc. Again and again their practice says,
"Here world, take my children!"
Fathers
and mothers are too busy or detached to have family devotions and
communication with their children. There is little desire or opportunity
to manifest parental love in "training up a child in the way he
should go (Prov. 22:6)." Here, world, take my children!
Most
parents have no place for a Bible believing church in their family
schedule where salvation and holy living are taught. Some who do attend
a good church will leave when they are offended at some Bible standard
or strong message. Here world, take my children.
Parents
send their children to school where evolution, free sex, and "one
worldism" are taught or even to a prominent religious school where
there are no standards and little restraint. The bribe is a better job,
a bigger church, an education which will conform you to the world. Here,
world, take my children.
If
discipline is necessary in a good Christian school, instead of thanking
the leaders for their love and concern for the child, some parents are
furious and pull the child out of the school. What does this do to the
child? It can only cause weakness of character for a lifetime! Here,
world, take my children.
Modern
day Lots are losing their wives and children to materialism and
immorality. They prefer a well watered plain that looks like Egypt (the
world). They make decisions based on material gain and social custom
instead of seeking first the kingdom of God. They choose a good place to
water their cows, even if it destroys their children. Here, world, take
my children. I don't have the time, dedication, character, or will to
rear them for God.
Contrast
Instead
of, "Here, world, take my children," you could say, "Here
Lord, take my children." God said of Abraham, "I know him,
that he will command his children and his household after him, and they
shall keep the way of the Lord . . ." (Gen. 18:19). No wonder he is
called the "friend of God."
Heb.
11 repeats, "by faith Abraham . . . " three times. It is never
said, "by faith Lot pitched his tent," or "by faith he
sat in the gate." Abraham walked by faith, Lot by sight. Abraham
was a man of worship and prayer. No altar of Lot is mentioned, and his
only recorded prayer is, "Let me escape." Abraham "looked
for a city . . . whose builder and maker is God" (Heb. 11:10). Lot
went to a city built by wicked men and destroyed by God.
The
"strife" in Gen. 13 manifested Abraham's faith and generosity,
but Lot's greed and worldliness. Abraham could see the "well
watered plain" as well as Lot, but with a "single eye"
and purified affections, he let God make his choice. Lot with double
vision (James 1:8) tried to serve God and mammon and got a vexed soul
and a vain life. Abraham is a hero of the faith; Lot was saved (II Pet.
2:6-8) "yet so as by fire."
They
started together on their course but reached different goals. Abraham
was favored and his family blessed because he chose, like Noah and
Enoch, to walk with God instead of the wicked world's system. Lot was
not content with the Lord and tried to find contentment in the world,
but his nest was abruptly broken up and he lost his family.
Abraham
taught Isaac in a tent away from the system, saying, "Here Lord,
take my life and my children." The lines fell to him in pleasant
places. Lot, in Sodom, taught his children saying, "Here, world,
take my children." Who made the right choice? What choice will you
make?
This
article is from a sermon Evangelist Hall preached in Greenville, S.C. in
June, 1988.
Reprinted
from Balance, a publication of the School of Education, Bob Jones
University. Used with permission of Dr. James Deuink, Ed. at Bob
Jones University. |